There is a possibility of them feeling guilty. I am actually running with that one. I feel a bit bad about forcing guilt - but not much.

WOW! You actually made stuff, holy cow! I just know I don't have the energy to do that. Even the first wedding was to be catered - of course, that was 250 people. I'm just glad my mother is taking care of it.

My mom is doing a lot, but I don't really know what the other mom-types can do. If I think of something, I'm absolutely going to use them! I'm trying to avoid dumping stuff to do on my friends - hopefully it'll work. *wince*