butterfly

Being a switch is an odd thing.., it's so difficult to describe and even worse to try to justify to people who seem to think I need to justify it. I suppose all I have ever managed to muddle out of pure emotion is a metaphore

Metaphor of a S/switch

think of a butterfly
two wings - mirror images of the other
equally bright,
equally strong,
and a little black velvet bug in the middle,
trying to hold up two huge wings

without one wing,
the butterfly can't fly- she'll be eaten
Without the other wing- ditto.
without either wing...
its just a worm with legs.

butterfly...
mirror images
of the same thing,
completely opposite
and a little velvety bug
with a big nose
in the middle,
trying to balance them while standing
but soaring when she flies


To put it simply, I can top a man any day and we'd both love it (I love men and hearing one groan is a highlight for me) but, after having tried it a time or two, I'm a miserable Domme for a male. However, I am so very comfortable submitting to a man. It is completely natural for me.

I could never, ever submit to a woman. It's completely impossible for me. But I love having a very female submissive. It is so fulfilling for me, as mother, sister, lover, guide and heartmate. I love the way women smell and taste and the way they squeak and giggle. Online and off, again, it is completely natural for me.

Yeah, I can even wear both hats at the same time with the right people in the room.


*shrugs* make what you will of it